Help others make a real connection with you, and you'll get more responses! Here are some ideas to get you started:

1. Most of my friends would say I have a (dominant/easy-going/shy/other) personality.
2. When it comes to physical health, I exercise about (5 to 7/3 or 4/1 or 2) times per week (or never), and expect my sex partners to be at about the same fitness level.
3. I (like/dislike) the bar scene. I prefer (lots of partying/not to party) when I'm involved in sexual encounters.
4. I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in the bedroom.
5. I love sex, but I'm more interested in (short-term relationships/long-term relationships/marriage).
6. In the bedroom, I tend to like (traditional, straight forward/kinky, experimental/other) sex. Some of my favorite positions are...
7. I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another (man/woman) in the room.
8. One-on-one sex doesn't interest me much. I prefer (threesomes/swapping/orgies/other).
9. I'm (seldom/always) willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds.

1. I'm (straight/bi-curious/gay). I'm (not interested/interested) in exploring sex with another (man/woman).
2. I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because...
3. I don't consider myself kinky, but I would like to try...
4. The only taboo I have in the bedroom is...
5. As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is...
6. Extramarital affairs (add excitement to a relationship/do not interest me).
7. One sexual fantasy I've always had is...
8. My feelings on one-night stands are...
9. During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to (name a few of your favorite artists or styles of music)...
10. Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - (is/is not) as important as sex.
11. Foreplay is (overrated/underrated). I like (lots of foreplay before/going straight to) penetration.
    

Presenting a thoughtful profile with specific info will speed your search for "real time" sex. In the examples above (not all of them will apply to you), either fill in the blanks or finish the sentences with your own answers. (If you still need help, have your profile professionally edited.)